Thinking About Divorce This Fall? Here’s a Better Way to Do It
As the summer winds down and the routines of fall settle in, many couples find themselves facing long-delayed truths about their relationship.
It’s no coincidence that divorce filings often rise in September.
The back-to-school season brings a return to structure—and with it, clarity.
The emotional pressure of summer vacations, family visits, or simply “holding it together for the kids” begins to lift.
And what’s left is an honest question: Can I keep doing this?
If you’re considering separation or divorce this fall, I want you to know:
There’s a better way.
You don’t have to go to war to end your marriage.
You can divorce differently.
What Is Divorce Mediation?
Divorce mediation is a cost-saving divorce alternative that helps couples reach fair, workable agreements without the high financial and emotional toll of litigation.
Instead of battling it out in court, you meet with a neutral, trained mediator who helps you navigate the legal, financial, and parenting decisions—while keeping conflict low and communication open.
As a former divorce attorney, now trained mediator and coach, I’ve seen the difference firsthand.
Why More Couples Are Choosing Mediation in the Fall
September brings a unique emotional landscape.
The external noise quiets. The kids are occupied. There's more space to reflect—and act. It’s a natural time for couples to begin important conversations about their future.
Many want a more peaceful divorce—especially if children are involved. Others are simply burned out from years of conflict and want to separate with dignity.
Mediation provides the structure, support, and clarity to do just that.
The Real Costs of a Contested Divorce
Let’s talk numbers.
Litigated divorces can cost tens of thousands of dollars—per person. The process often drags on for months or years, leaving emotional scars and drained bank accounts.
Divorce mediation, on the other hand, is:
Faster
More affordable
Focused on resolution, not revenge
It’s the smart choice for couples who want to protect their peace and their assets.
How to Divorce Differently
If you’re ready to move forward—without blowing up your life—mediation may be the right path. My approach to Integrative Divorce Mediation blends over 25 years of legal experience with emotional intelligence, nervous system support, and clear, calm communication tools.
It’s designed for people who want to:
End their marriage with integrity
Minimize legal and emotional costs
Create fair, livable agreements that work in the real world
Protect their children from unnecessary conflict
Rebuild their lives from a place of clarity and strength
Ready to Take the First Step?
If you're thinking about divorce this fall, you don’t have to do it alone—and you don’t have to do it the way everyone else does.
Let’s talk about how you can divorce differently.
Schedule a free Mediation Discovery Call to explore whether this approach is right for you and your family.
